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What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 00:55

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?

Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?

Or because they’re happy without you.

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You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.

If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.

Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.

I have a bad reputation and need help. What should I do?

It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.

You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.

Because only you LOVED?

What should I do if I love someone who does not love me?

Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?

If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,

Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.

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Because it hurts that they are not with you?

Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.

Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?

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Because you were just unlucky in love?

If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.

You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?

Jenny from Perth writes – my partner is the life of the party, women and men adore him. But at home, he gets angry at us for the silliest reasons and never nice words me or our kids, always putting us down. Should I stay or leave him?

But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.

Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?

Or because she doesn’t love you back?

Why don't we hear our own snoring?

I love getting tired of loving that someone though…

Because you are in sorrow without them?

Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.

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Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?

True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.

~KSR

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